{"id":4690,"date":"2020-12-07T10:40:28","date_gmt":"2020-12-07T10:40:28","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.maranatha.al\/?p=4690"},"modified":"2020-12-07T10:40:29","modified_gmt":"2020-12-07T10:40:29","slug":"mos-me-jetue-vetem-per-vedi-por-me-u-vlejte-edhe-tjerve","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.maranatha.al\/?p=4690","title":{"rendered":"MOS ME JETUE VETEM PER VEDI, POR ME U VLEJT\u00cb EDHE TJERVE!"},"content":{"rendered":"\n
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Dom ZEF GILAJ, ky meshtar me dije t\u2019 gj\u00e2n\u00eb, por i\nheshtun, e ndoqi me perpikmen\u00ee rregullin latin: \u201cNon sibi soli vivere aliis\nproficere.\u201d qi n\u00eb shqip don me th\u00e2n\u00eb: \n\u201cMos me jetue vetem per vedi, por me u vlejt\u00eb edhe tjerve!\u201d Perg\u2019jat\u00eb\njet\u00ebs s\u00eb  vet 84-vje\u00e7are, Dom Zefi u\nvlejti sh\u00fbm tjerve: jo vetem nder sakram\u00eande \u2013 detyr\u00eb e meshtarit, por edhe me\nkshilla e me sh\u00eambuj fizik\u00eb e mendor\u00eb.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Dom Zef Gilaj leu me 19 korrik 1916, n\u00eb nji familje\nmalcore n\u00eb Vrith t\u00eb  Shkrelit  t\u00eb Malcis\u00eb s\u00eb Madhe e u pagzue me 23 korrik.\nPrej prindve mori sh\u00eambullin e mir\u00eb per me pas\u00eb zell e kamb\u00ebngulje per pun\u00eb,\nper nji pun\u00eb t\u00eb ndershme, me djers\u00eb t\u00eb ballit. I ati i diq shpejt e drejtimin e\nfamiljes e mori e \u00e2ma e cila nuk e la me r\u00e1 as ekonomikisht, as moralisht, por\ne mbajti t\u00eb bashkueme, t\u00eb fort\u00eb e me bekim, gj\u00e2 qi ndikoi sh\u00fbm edhe n\u00eb\nformimin  e karakterit t\u00eb Zefit t\u00eb vogel.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Familja e Dom Zefit kishte prona edhe n\u00eb Razem e atje\ndelte g\u2019jat\u00eb ver\u00ebs edhe Zefi i vogel. N\u00eb Razem, n\u2019ato vjet, kishte ardh\u00eb me\nverue edhe kryeipeshkvi i Shkodres, Emzot Lazer Mjedja. Atje delte edhe Dom\nNdre Mjedja, vllau i kryeipeshkvit, i cili e msonte Zefin e per me ndihmue\npriftin n\u00eb mesh\u00eb.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Kur kryeipeshkvi donte me \u00e7ue ndonji leter n\u00eb kishen\nfamullitare t\u00eb Shkrelit, ku ishte famullitar Dom Ndr\u00e9 Zad\u00eaja, ia jepte Zefit e\nai fluturonte… Tue p\u00e1 te Zefi i vogel nji fmij\u00eb posa\u00e7e tjerve, Emzot Mjedja u\nkerkoi prindve t\u00eb tij t\u2019 ia jepshin per me e pregadit\u00eb per prift. Prindt\u00eb\npranuen e me 1925, Zefi, i shoqnuem prej Dom Ndr\u00e9 Zad\u00eaj\u00ebs, filloi shkollen nder\njezuit\u00eb, por banonte n\u00eb Kryeipeshkv\u00ed, te Emzot Lazri, se nuk kishte v\u00eand n\u00eb\nkonvikt. \u00c2sht per t\u2019 u v\u00fb n\u00eb dukje ktu nji fakt qi na e kallxonte vet\u00eb Dom\nZefi: Kryeipeshkvi (Dom Lazri) i kishte var\u00eb n\u00eb mur, te kryet e shtratit, nji\npal\u00eb tesha malcore e i kishte pas\u00eb than\u00eb Zefit: \u201cShikjo, sillu mir\u00eb e x\u00ean mir\u00eb,\nse, perndryshe, t\u00eb vesh njato tesha e t\u00eb nis n\u00eb shpi!…\u201d E Zefi nuk i veshi\nkurr ato tesha, sadoqi i admiroi e i vlersoi perg\u2019jat\u00eb gjith jet\u00ebs…<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Dom Zef Gilaj u d\u00e1 n\u2019 sh\u00eaj per urt\u00ed, per squets\u00ed e per\nzots\u00ed n\u00eb \u00e7do gj\u00e2. Mbrenda nji vjeti kreu dy klas\u00eb: t\u00eb paren e t\u00eb dyten. T\u00eb\ntreten e b\u00e2ni ve\u00e7mas, por prap, t\u00eb katerten e t\u00eb pesten i kreu n\u00eb nji vjet. N\u00eb\nklas\u00eb t\u00eb gjasht\u00eb (vjeti i par\u00eb i gjimnazit), filloi latinishten. Kur ishte n\u00eb\nklas\u00eb t\u00eb shtat\u00eb, n\u00eb dimen r\u00e1 nji grip i r\u00e2nd\u00eb e u mbyllen shkollat per nji muej.\nZefi, bashk\u00eb me nji shok klase, moren programin e vjetit t\u00eb tet\u00eb, studiuen\nfort, dhan\u00eb provimet e moren klasen. Qysh n\u00eb t\u00eb dyten gjimnaz, ai pati fillue\nme nx\u00e2n\u00eb frangishten, me nji msues prej Belgjike. N\u00eb gjimnaz, krahas\nlatinishtes e greqisnhtes s\u00eb vjeter, studion edhe italishten. Pra, mbasi kreu\ngjimnazin me rezultate t\u00eb nalta, Zefi yn\u00eb e kishte hijeshue m\u00eanden me kater\ng\u2019juh\u00eb t\u00eb hueja…<\/p>\n\n\n\n

N\u00eb vjetin 1935, shkon per studime t\u00eb n\u00e2lta n\u00eb Rom\u00eb, n\u00eb\nKolegjin \u201cAlma Mater\u201d, ku punon fort n\u00eb t\u00eb gjitha disiplinat, por shquhet per\nzotnimin e g\u2019juhve t\u00eb hueja, aq sa, pothuej perher\u00eb, e ngarkojn\u00eb me shoqnue\nbashk\u00ebstudenta t\u00eb huej, ku b\u00e2nte punen e perkthyesit, \u201ctue u spjegue\natyne,  n\u00eb g\u2019juh\u00ebt perkat\u00ebse, bukurit\u00eb\nartistike t\u2019 Urb\u00ebs (Rom\u00ebs \u2013 P. Rr.) e t\u2019 Italis\u00eb\u201d, sikurse shkruen vet\u00eb Dom\nZefi. \u00c2sht per t\u2019 u theksue se ai pervetsoi shkelqyeshem (me t\u00eb folun e me t\u00eb\nshkruem) edhe kater g\u2019juh\u00eb tjera t\u00eb hueja: gjermanishten, anglishten,\nserbokroatishten e spanjishten…<\/p>\n\n\n\n

N\u00eb kohen e studimeve n\u00eb Rom\u00eb, kryen nji vjet pregaditje,\ndy vjet filozofi e kater vjet teologji e merr li\u00e7encen me cilsimin \u201cMagna cum\nlaude\u201d (=Ma e madhja, me lavdime).<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Mbasi kryen studimet, perg\u2019jat\u00eb t\u00eb cilave u nderue me\nsh\u00fbm medalje, me 24 shtatuer 1941, shugurohet meshtar n\u00eb Rom\u00eb, prej Pap\u00ebs Piu\nXII, i cili i b\u00e2n familjes s\u00eb Dom Zefit nji urim-bekim me shkrim, n\u00eb formen e\nnji diplome historike, bekim i cili ruhej n\u00eb Vatikan (sikurse na kallxonte vet\u00eb\nDom Zefi) e kishte k\u00ebt permbajtje: \u201cBekue kjoft\u00eb familja e Prendash Markut qi\nnxori prej gjinit t\u00eb vet nji njieri t\u00eb sh\u00eajt\u00eb…!\u201d Dom Zefi \u00e7on meshen e par\u00eb\nn\u00eb Katedralen e Shen Pjetrit n\u00eb Rom\u00eb. N\u00eb shtatuer 1941, vjen n\u00eb Shqipni e\nmeshen e par\u00eb n\u2019 atdhe e celebron n\u00eb kishen e Beltoj\u00ebs, ku ishin mbledh\u00eb\nushtar\u00eb t\u00eb nji reparti ushtarak italian e popull v\u00eandas…<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Dom Ndr\u00e9 Mjedja, msuesi i Dom Zefit, e kishte l\u00e2n\u00eb porosi\nme goj\u00eb qi Dom Zef Gilaj t\u00eb nx\u00eante v\u00eandin e tij n\u00eb Kukel e kshtu, po me 1941, u\nemnue famullitar n\u00eb Kukel, tue i ngarkue edhe Malin e Jushit.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

N\u00eb kto vjete, n\u00eb Shqipni kishin fillue trazina t\u00eb m\u00ebdha.\nN\u00eb nj\u00e2nen \u00e2n\u00eb \u2013 pushtuesit e huej e n\u2019 \u00e2n\u00eb tjeter \u2013 komunistat shqiptar\u00eb, e\nkishin b\u00e2 t\u00eb pasigurt jeten e shqiptarve. N\u00eb maj 1944, n\u2019sa ishte n\u00eb Kukel, n\u00eb\nBarbullush, nji v\u00eandas musliman vret, per motive krejt banale, nji oficer\ngjerman e ia mbath prej frige. Komanda gjermane grumbullon 101 vet\u00eb prej\nkatundit, gadi me i pushkatue t\u00eb gjith derisa mos t\u00eb kallxojshin \u00eamnin e\nvras\u00ebsit… Por vjen Dom Zefi prej Kuklit e, me k\u00e9n\u00eb se dinte gjermanisht,  i drejtohet oficerit gjerman, tue arsyetue\nholl\u00eb e me durim e tue iu lut\u00eb Zoj\u00ebs s\u00eb \nBekueme, derisa e b\u00eend me i lirue katundar\u00ebt e Barbullushit.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Me 1949, Dom Zefi caktohet famullitar n\u00eb Barbullush, ku\nsherben deri n\u00eb vjeten tjeter (1950), prej kah arrestohet e e mbajn\u00eb nji vjet\nn\u00eb hetuesi n\u00eb Shkoder, nen tortura e vuejtje e mandej e internojn\u00eb, per kater\nvjet, nder kampe perqendrimi: n\u00eb Tepelen\u00eb, Vlon\u00eb e Tiran\u00eb, prej kah lirohet n\u00eb\nf\u00fbnd t\u00eb vjetit 1954 e shkon famullitar n\u00eb Trush, ku sherben per m\u00e2 se dy\nvjet…<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Me 1957 vjen si prift famullitar e si dekan (sod: vikar)\nn\u00eb Rr\u00e2nxa t\u00eb Bushatit, tue xavendsue Dom Mhill \u00c7\u00fbnin e ku do t\u00eb sherbej\u00eb me\ndevocion e perkushtim, derisa, me 17 marc 1967, kj\u00e8 d\u00ebbue prej shtetit\ndiktatorial komunist…<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Dom Zefi ka pas\u00eb miqsi e respekt per dy bij t\u2019 shquem t\u00eb\nRr\u00e2nxave: per Dom Mhill \u00c7\u00fbnin e per M\u00e2rk \u00c7\u00fbnin. Dom Mhillin e \u00e7monte per\nguximin e tij e per vizionin e gj\u00e2n\u00eb, kurse M\u00e2rkun e vlersonte per sakrificen\nsublime t\u00eb tij.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Mbas mbylljes s\u00eb kishave, per nji periudh\u00eb gadi\n\u00e7erekshekullore, punoi si puntuer n\u00eb ndertim. Banonte n\u00eb nji bodrum t\u00eb ftoft\u00eb,\nplot lag\u00ebshtin\u00eb e err\u00ebsin\u00eb, bashk\u00eb me motrat murgesha: Gjyste e Mikelin\u00eb.\nEdhepse n\u00eb kushte tejet t\u00eb v\u00ebshtira, mshehtas kryente sherbesa fetare.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Me ramjen e komunizmit, vjen prap n\u00eb Rr\u00e2nxa, ku sherbeu\nderisa diq me 29. 03. 2000. N\u2019 banesen e f\u00fbndit e percollen sh\u00fbm njer\u00ebz; madje\nkishin ardh\u00eb edhe sh\u00fbm musliman\u00eb prej zon\u00ebs, kryesisht prej Barbullushit… U\ncelebrue mesha prej kryeipeshkvit, kurse predkun e mbajti Emzot Zef Simoni, me\nnji pjes\u00eb t\u00eb t\u2019 cilit po m\u2019 pelqen me e mbyll\u00eb k\u00ebt jet\u00ebshkrim t\u00eb shkurt\u00eb t\u00eb nji\njete e vepre  t\u00eb g\u2019jat\u00eb e t\u00eb madhe: \u201cLum\nata qi desin n\u00eb Tenzon\u00eb!\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Familjes s\u00eb sh\u00eajt\u00eb, Zotyn\u00eb i pati caktue nji bab\u00eb t\u00eb\ndevotshem: Sh\u2019 Jozefin. Kjo familje, tash 2020 vjet \u00e2sht b\u00e2 sh\u00eambull per t\u00eb\ngjitha familjet e krishtena, t\u00eb vogla e t\u00eb m\u00ebdha, perfsh\u00ee ktu edhe bashk\u00ebsit\u00eb\nfamullitare. Edhe familjes son\u00eb t\u00eb madhe, famullis\u00eb s\u00eb Shna Rrokut, Zoti i\ncaktoi per bab\u00eb nji Jozef shqiptar: Dom Zef Gilen…  Aq i lidhun ishte Dom Zefi me famullin\u00eb e\nvet, sa e la me goj\u00eb me e vorrue n\u00eb vorret e Kish\u00ebs famullitare t\u00eb Shna Rrokut.\nE ashtu u b\u00e2… Pergjithher\u00eb qi na shkojm\u00eb n\u2019 at v\u00eand t\u00eb sh\u00eajt\u00eb, \u00e7ojm\u00eb lule te\nvorri i tij e lutemi: PUSHOFT\u00cb N\u00cb LUMNIN\u00cb E PARRIZIT!<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

Palok Rrotani Dom ZEF GILAJ, ky meshtar me dije t\u2019 gj\u00e2n\u00eb, por i heshtun, e ndoqi me perpikmen\u00ee rregullin latin: \u201cNon sibi soli vivere aliis proficere.\u201d qi n\u00eb shqip don me th\u00e2n\u00eb:  \u201cMos me jetue vetem per vedi, por me u vlejt\u00eb edhe tjerve!\u201d Perg\u2019jat\u00eb jet\u00ebs s\u00eb  vet 84-vje\u00e7are, Dom Zefi u vlejti sh\u00fbm tjerve: … <\/p>\n

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