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<\/figure>\n\n\n\nE kremtja e sotme na b\u00ebn ta kundrojm\u00eb m\u00eb nga af\u00ebr\nFamiljen e Shenjt\u00eb t\u00eb Nazaretit t\u00eb p\u00ebrb\u00ebr\u00eb nga Jezusi, Maria dhe Jozefi. Fakti\nq\u00eb Kisha i ka kushtuar nj\u00eb t\u00eb kremte t\u00eb posa\u00e7me k\u00ebsaj Familjeje, tregon\np\u00ebrzem\u00ebrsin\u00eb e madhe q\u00eb t\u00eb krishter\u00ebt gjat\u00eb shekujve kan\u00eb pasur ndaj Saj.\nMjafton t\u00eb mendohet p\u00ebr dhjet\u00ebra Kongregata rregulltare, mashkullore e\nfem\u00ebrore, q\u00eb mbajn\u00eb pik\u00ebrisht emrin e Familjes s\u00eb Shenjt\u00eb. <\/p>\n\n\n\n
\u00cbsht\u00eb interesante t\u00eb vihet re se k\u00ebto Kongregata datojn\u00eb\nkryesisht n\u00eb fillimet e shekullit XIX e k\u00ebtej. Duket sikur Shpirti Shenjt ka\ndashur t\u00eb zgjoj\u00eb n\u00eb Kish\u00ebn e Tij nj\u00eb p\u00ebrshpirt\u00ebri m\u00eb t\u00eb madhe ndaj Familjes s\u00eb\nShenjt\u00eb, pik\u00ebrisht at\u00ebher\u00eb kur familjeve njer\u00ebzore filluan t\u2019u shfaqeshin n\u00eb\nhorizont k\u00ebrc\u00ebnimet m\u00eb serioze q\u00eb u ishin shfaqur ndonj\u00ebher\u00eb, duke i zhytur n\u00eb\nnj\u00eb kriz\u00eb t\u00eb thell\u00eb identiteti. Shpirti Shenjt e fton njer\u00ebzimin t\u00eb kujtoj\u00eb\nmisterin qendror q\u00eb e p\u00ebrb\u00ebn familjen e, n\u00eb k\u00ebt\u00eb \u201crind\u00ebrtim\u201d identiteti, duket\nsikur rruga m\u00eb e leht\u00eb \u00ebsht\u00eb pik\u00ebrisht Familja e Shenjt\u00eb.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
N\u00eb fakt, kjo e fundit \u00ebsht\u00eb shum\u00eb ndryshe nga \u00e7do familje\ntjet\u00ebr njer\u00ebzore. Si ajo as nuk ka pasur e as nuk do t\u00eb ket\u00eb. Po si, at\u00ebher\u00eb,\nmund t\u2019i ofrohet nj\u00eb model i till\u00eb familjeve t\u00eb tjera?<\/p>\n\n\n\n
P\u00ebr ta kuptuar k\u00ebt\u00eb, na duhet t\u00eb nisemi nga m\u00ebnyra se si Letra e drejtuar Hebrenjve e sheh at\u00ebsin\u00eb e Abrahamit dhe am\u00ebsin\u00eb e Sar\u00ebs: \u00abMe an\u00eb t\u00eb fes\u00eb Abrahami, kur qe grishur, d\u00ebgjoi t\u00eb \u00e7oj\u00eb e t\u00eb niset drejt vendit q\u00eb do ta fitonte n\u00eb trash\u00ebgim… Me an\u00eb t\u00eb fes\u00eb, edhe vet\u00eb Sara beronj\u00eb, fitoi mund\u00ebsin\u00eb t\u00eb b\u00ebhej n\u00ebn\u00eb, megjith\u00ebse mosha i kishte kaluar… Me an\u00eb t\u00eb fes\u00eb Abrahami, i v\u00ebn\u00eb n\u00eb prov\u00eb, e flijoi Izakun… Prandaj edhe e rifitoi dhe qe nj\u00eb sh\u00ebmb\u00eblltyr\u00eb\u00bb<\/em>.<\/p>\n\n\n\n \u00abMe an\u00eb t\u00eb fes\u00eb…\u00bb<\/em>: ja ve\u00e7oria e\nk\u00ebtyre dy njer\u00ebz. Abrahami besonte n\u00eb premtimin e Hyjit, edhe pse rrethanat\nishin shum\u00eb t\u00eb v\u00ebshtira q\u00eb ky premtim t\u00eb realizohej. <\/p>\n\n\n\n Leximi i par\u00eb, na tregon se si Hyji ia premtoi djalin e\nshum\u00eb d\u00ebshiruar dhe Abrahami \u2013 edhe pse n\u00eb mosh\u00eb shum\u00eb t\u00eb shtyr\u00eb \u2013 i besoi\nfjal\u00ebs s\u00eb Hyjit: \u00abZoti e b\u00ebri t\u00eb dal\u00eb\njasht\u00eb dhe i tha: \u201cShikoje qiellin dhe num\u00ebroji yjet po munde!… T\u00eb till\u00eb do\nt\u00eb jen\u00eb trash\u00ebgimtar\u00ebt e tu\u201d. Abrahami i besoi Zotit dhe iu \u00e7mua p\u00ebr drejt\u00ebsi\u00bb<\/em>.\nPastaj leximi vazhdon duke na treguar p\u00ebr lindjen e t\u00eb birit dhe se si Hyji e\nmbajti fjal\u00ebn e dh\u00ebn\u00eb.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Ishte \u00abfeja\u00bb<\/em>\nqendra e k\u00ebtij \u00e7ifti t\u00eb moshuar. Ishte \u00abfeja\u00bb<\/em>\najo q\u00eb i shtynte t\u00eb besonin se Zoti duhej d\u00ebgjuar e respektuar. Ishte \u00abme an\u00eb t\u00eb fes\u00eb\u00bb<\/em> q\u00eb ata e shikonin \u00e7do\ndetaj t\u00eb jet\u00ebs s\u00eb tyre.<\/p>\n\n\n\n E pik\u00ebrisht \u00abme an\u00eb\nt\u00eb fes\u00eb\u00bb<\/em> mund t\u00eb kuptohet edhe Familja e Shenjt\u00eb e Nazaretit, sepse \u00abme an\u00eb t\u00eb fes\u00eb\u00bb<\/em> secili prej an\u00ebtar\u00ebve\nt\u00eb saj e shikonte veten dhe tjetrin.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Jezusi, Biri i Hyjit, nga dashuria p\u00ebr Atin e vet, pranoi\nt\u00eb b\u00ebhej njeri e t\u00eb lindte nga nj\u00eb grua. Jo vet\u00ebm kaq, por pik\u00ebrisht p\u00ebr shkak\nt\u00eb po k\u00ebsaj dashurie Ai pranoi t\u2019u n\u00ebnshtrohej ligjeve t\u00eb kufizuara t\u00eb natyr\u00ebs\nnjer\u00ebzore e t\u2019u n\u00ebnshtrohej edhe ligjeve njer\u00ebzore.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Maria, Zoja e Bekuar, \u00abme\nan\u00eb t\u00eb fes\u00eb\u00bb<\/em> pranoi t\u00eb b\u00ebhej \u00abSh\u00ebrb\u00ebtorja\ne Hyjit\u00bb<\/em> n\u00eb planin e Tij t\u00eb mistersh\u00ebm t\u00eb sh\u00eblbimit. Ajo pranoi q\u00eb t\u00eb\nlindte k\u00ebt\u00eb F\u00ebmij\u00eb, i cili mrekullisht ishte ngjizur n\u00eb krah\u00ebrorin e saj, duke\nu b\u00ebr\u00eb k\u00ebshtu N\u00ebn\u00eb fal\u00eb fes\u00eb, n\u00eb kuptimin m\u00eb t\u00eb plot\u00eb t\u00eb fjal\u00ebs.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Jozefi, pik\u00ebrisht \u00abme\nan\u00eb t\u00eb fes\u00eb\u00bb<\/em> e pranoi Jezusin F\u00ebmij\u00eb dhe Marin\u00eb. Ishte feja e qet\u00eb dhe e\nfort\u00eb e k\u00ebtij njeriu t\u00eb dashur ajo q\u00eb b\u00ebhej shtylla mbajt\u00ebse n\u00eb shpirtin e tij\ndhe q\u00eb, pak nga pak, e ndihmoi t\u00eb kuptonte se i ishte besuar t\u00eb rriste si bir\nt\u00eb vetin pik\u00ebrisht Birin e Hyjit. Po kjo fe e ndihmoi t\u00eb kuptonte gjithnj\u00eb e m\u00eb\nshum\u00eb edhe se, bashk\u00ebshortja e tij, ishte \u00abm\u00eb\ne bekuara nd\u00ebr t\u00eb gjitha grat\u00eb\u00bb<\/em>, fal\u00eb past\u00ebrtis\u00eb s\u00eb pashoqe q\u00eb kishte\nshpirti i saj i Pap\u00ebrlyer.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Mund ta imagjinojm\u00eb p\u00ebrditshm\u00ebrin\u00eb e k\u00ebsaj familjeje kaq\nt\u00eb past\u00ebr, kaq t\u00eb thjesht\u00eb e nj\u00ebkoh\u00ebsisht kaq t\u00eb pazakont\u00eb. T\u00eb gjith\u00eb kishin\nnj\u00eb pik\u00eb t\u00eb p\u00ebrbashk\u00ebt: besimin n\u00eb Zot<\/em>.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Pik\u00ebrisht n\u00eb k\u00ebt\u00eb pik\u00eb ata b\u00ebhen edhe modeli m\u00eb i leht\u00eb\np\u00ebr \u00e7do familje tjet\u00ebr njer\u00ebzore, sepse u m\u00ebsojn\u00eb atyre ta shohin vetveten \u00abme an\u00eb t\u00eb fes\u00eb\u00bb<\/em> e t\u00eb ken\u00eb p\u00ebr qend\u00ebr t\u00eb\ntyre Zotin.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Nj\u00eb familje pa Zotin, \u00ebsht\u00eb e k\u00ebrc\u00ebnuar, \u00ebsht\u00eb e humbur.\nPik\u00ebrisht k\u00ebt\u00eb, Shpirti Shenjt d\u00ebshiron t\u2019i m\u00ebsoj\u00eb bot\u00ebs duke frym\u00ebzuar n\u00eb\nKish\u00eb p\u00ebrshpirt\u00ebrin\u00eb ndaj Familjes s\u00eb Shenjt\u00eb. <\/p>\n\n\n\n Sot duket sikur shum\u00eb rryma morale e filozofike duan ta\nshmangin Zotin nga familja, e prandaj n\u00eb bot\u00eb kan\u00eb ngulur rr\u00ebnj\u00eb friksh\u00ebm ligje\nq\u00eb e shkat\u00ebrrojn\u00eb gjithnj\u00eb e m\u00eb shum\u00eb familjen: martesat homoseksuale, divorci,\nbashk\u00ebjetesa, aborti, fekondimi artificial, etj. N\u00eb vend q\u00eb t\u00eb propagandohet\ndashuria gjithnj\u00eb e m\u00eb e fort\u00eb n\u00eb \u00e7ift dhe k\u00ebrkimi gjithnj\u00eb e m\u00eb i madh i s\u00eb\nv\u00ebrtet\u00ebs e i bashkimit, duket sikur propagandat duan ta v\u00ebn\u00eb theksin mbi\negoizmin, mbi munges\u00ebn e detyrimeve n\u00eb jet\u00eb e mbi shthurjen morale. Por kjo po\ni b\u00ebn disa popuj t\u00eb b\u00ebhen deri edhe qesharak\u00eb n\u00eb m\u00ebnyr\u00ebn se si e konceptojn\u00eb\nfamiljen dhe me ligjet q\u00eb aprovojn\u00eb.<\/p>\n\n\n\n \u00cbsht\u00eb e \u00e7uditshme t\u00eb shoh\u00ebsh se si shumica e k\u00ebtyre popujve,\nme disa ligje qesharake n\u00eb lidhje me familjen, vijn\u00eb nga tradita pik\u00ebrisht t\u00eb krishtera.\nKan\u00eb dashur t\u00eb largohen nga rr\u00ebnja e kultur\u00ebs s\u00eb krishter\u00eb dhe kan\u00eb p\u00ebrfunduar\nt\u00eb jen\u00eb pa asnj\u00eb rr\u00ebnj\u00eb morale e njer\u00ebzore. Ai proverbi n\u00eb gegnisht \u00abKush nuk ndigjon bab\u00ebn e nan\u00ebn, del n\u00eb\nrrug\u00eb e thyen kamben\u00bb<\/em> mund t\u00eb vlente edhe n\u00eb k\u00ebt\u00eb rast. Jo rast\u00ebsisht\nvet\u00ebvrasjet jan\u00eb t\u00eb shumta pik\u00ebrisht n\u00eb k\u00ebta popuj, sepse aty njeriu po\nzhvishet gjithnj\u00eb e m\u00eb shum\u00eb nga vlerat e, pa vlera, njeriu e ka v\u00ebshtir\u00eb \u201cta\nshtyj\u00eb\u201d jet\u00ebn.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Por sa t\u00eb bekuara jan\u00eb ato familje q\u00eb nuk heqin dor\u00eb nga \u00abfeja\u00bb<\/em> e nga organizimi i detajeve t\u00eb\njet\u00ebs pik\u00ebrisht p\u00ebrreth fes\u00eb! Fal\u00eb fes\u00eb, ata b\u00ebhen bij e bija t\u00eb v\u00ebrteta t\u00eb\nAbrahamit dhe Sar\u00ebs. Jo vet\u00ebm kaq, por b\u00ebhen edhe sh\u00ebmb\u00eblles\u00eb e Familjes s\u00eb\nShenjt\u00eb t\u00eb Nazaretit.<\/p>\n\n\n\n \u00cbsht\u00eb interesante t\u00eb shohim n\u00eb Ungjillin e sot\u00ebm se si na\nparaqiten edhe disa figura t\u00eb tjera t\u00eb cilat n\u00eb qendr\u00ebn e jet\u00ebs s\u00eb tyre kan\u00eb\nv\u00ebn\u00eb pik\u00ebrisht fen\u00eb. Fol\u00ebm p\u00ebr Jezusin, Marin\u00eb dhe Jozefin, por le t\u00eb shohim\npak edhe Simonin plak dhe nj\u00eb grua t\u00eb vej\u00eb me emrin Ana.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Simoni kishte marr\u00eb prej Shpirtit Shenjt premtimin \u00abse s\u2019do t\u00eb vdiste pa e par\u00eb Mesin\u00eb e Zotit\u00bb<\/em>.\nKur e merr n\u00eb duart e veta Mesin\u00eb, ai kaq shum\u00eb ndihet i plot\u00ebsuar, saq\u00eb \u00ebsht\u00eb\ni gatsh\u00ebm ta p\u00ebrfundoj\u00eb ecjen e tij tok\u00ebsore: \u00abTani, o Zot, mund t\u00eb lejosh t\u00eb vdes\u00eb sh\u00ebrb\u00ebtori yt n\u00eb paqe…\u00bb<\/em>\nJeta e njeriut merr plot\u00ebsin\u00eb e saj, n\u00eb fakt, vet\u00ebm kur pranon Jezusin brenda\nsaj. Fjal\u00ebt e Simonit plak Kisha i p\u00ebrs\u00ebrit \u00e7do mbr\u00ebmje, si p\u00ebr t\u00eb th\u00ebn\u00eb se \u00e7do\ndit\u00eb ajo \u00ebsht\u00eb e gatshme ta mbyll\u00eb ecjen e saj tok\u00ebsore, ngaq\u00eb ndihet e plot\u00eb\nme Jezusin brenda saj.<\/p>\n\n\n\n P\u00ebr An\u00ebn profetesh\u00eb ungjilltari thot\u00eb di\u00e7ka jo pa dometh\u00ebnie: \u00abIshte shum\u00eb e vjet\u00ebr. Pas vajz\u00ebris\u00eb s\u00eb vet jetoi n\u00eb martes\u00eb gjithsej shtat\u00eb, vjet kurse, si grua e vej\u00eb, arriti deri n\u00eb tet\u00ebdhjet\u00eb e kat\u00ebr vjet. Ajo nuk e l\u00ebshonte Tempullin. I sh\u00ebrbente Hyjit dit\u00eb e nat\u00eb me agj\u00ebrim e me urat\u00eb\u00bb.<\/em> Ajo, vetmin\u00eb e saj e kishte mbushur me Hyjin, e kishte ndri\u00e7uar me drit\u00ebn e lutjes dhe e kishte mbajtur me forc\u00ebn e pendesave. Ishte krejt\u00ebsisht e p\u00ebrqendruar n\u00eb Hyjin, prandaj arriti ta dallonte \u2013 fal\u00eb ndonj\u00eb Hiri t\u00eb posa\u00e7\u00ebm \u2013 ve\u00e7orin\u00eb e k\u00ebsaj Foshnje.<\/p>\n\n\n\n K\u00ebta njer\u00ebz, q\u00eb dit\u00ebn ta brumosnin jet\u00ebn e tyre e sidomos\nvetmin\u00eb e tyre, me Frym\u00ebn e Shpirtit t\u00eb Zotit dhe dit\u00ebn ta gjenin n\u00eb Jezusin\nkuptimin e ekzistenc\u00ebs s\u00eb tyre, b\u00ebhen model besimi p\u00ebr \u00e7do njeri. K\u00ebshtu, n\u00ebse\nsecili an\u00ebtar i \u00e7do familjeje njer\u00ebzore, e pranon Zotin n\u00eb jet\u00ebn e vet, duke e\nmbushur jet\u00ebn me lutje, me vlera e me dashuri, \u00abme an\u00eb t\u00eb fes\u00eb\u00bb<\/em> do t\u00eb dij\u00eb ta p\u00ebrjetoj\u00eb n\u00eb vetvete misterin q\u00eb e\nmbante t\u00eb bashkuar Familjen e Shenjt\u00eb t\u00eb Nazaretit.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Por, n\u00eb fund t\u00eb fundit, modeli m\u00eb i p\u00ebrsosur i familjes njer\u00ebzore, \u00ebsht\u00eb vet\u00eb Trinia e Shenjt\u00eb. Prandaj Papa Sh\u00ebn Gjon Pali II thoshte: \u00abFamilja \u00ebsht\u00eb pasqyra n\u00eb t\u00eb cil\u00ebn Hyji sheh vetveten e dallon aty dy mrekullit\u00eb m\u00eb t\u00eb bukura q\u00eb Ai ka b\u00ebr\u00eb: t\u00eb dhurohet jeta e t\u00eb dhurohet dashuria.\u00bb<\/em> Duke ndjekur shembullin e Familjes s\u00eb Shenjt\u00eb t\u00eb Nazaretit, familjet njer\u00ebzore do ta ken\u00eb m\u00eb t\u00eb leht\u00eb t\u2019i afrohen dashuris\u00eb s\u00eb Trinis\u00eb s\u00eb Shenjt\u00eb.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Dom Dritan Ndoci<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":" FAMILJA E SHENJT\u00cb E NAZARETIT – Viti B Zan 15, 1-6; 21, 1-3; Heb 11, 8. 11-12. 17-19; Lk 2, 22-40 E kremtja e sotme na b\u00ebn ta kundrojm\u00eb m\u00eb nga af\u00ebr Familjen e Shenjt\u00eb t\u00eb Nazaretit t\u00eb p\u00ebrb\u00ebr\u00eb nga Jezusi, Maria dhe Jozefi. Fakti q\u00eb Kisha i ka kushtuar nj\u00eb t\u00eb kremte t\u00eb posa\u00e7me … <\/p>\n