{"id":93,"date":"2019-12-21T08:38:30","date_gmt":"2019-12-21T08:38:30","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.maranatha.al\/?p=93"},"modified":"2019-12-21T16:36:26","modified_gmt":"2019-12-21T16:36:26","slug":"dashuria-e-bere-njeri-dhe-lypsaret-e-dashurise","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.maranatha.al\/?p=93","title":{"rendered":"DASHURIA E B\u00cbR\u00cb NJERI DHE LYPSAR\u00cbT E DASHURIS\u00cb!"},"content":{"rendered":"\n
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Festa\ne Krishtlindjes q\u00eb po afron, na ndihmon edhe nj\u00eb her\u00eb t\u00eb hyjm\u00eb m\u00eb thell\u00eb n\u00eb\nmisterin e pamas\u00eb t\u00eb Mish\u00ebrimit t\u00eb Zotit ton\u00eb. Thuhet n\u00eb jet\u00ebn e Sh\u00ebn\nFran\u00e7eskut t\u00eb Asizit se kishte ndodhur nj\u00eb her\u00eb q\u00eb, gjat\u00eb ngr\u00ebnies, ishte\np\u00ebrhumbur aq shum\u00eb saq\u00eb e kishte nd\u00ebrprer\u00eb t\u00eb ngr\u00ebn\u00ebt. Bashk\u00ebv\u00ebll\u00ebz\u00ebrit e tij, duke\ne shkundur pak, e pyet\u00ebn: \u00abAt\u00eb Fran\u00e7esk,\n\u00e7far\u00eb ndodhi?\u00bb.<\/em> E ai: \u00abJo asgj\u00eb. Po\nmendoja vet\u00ebm se si ka mund\u00ebsi q\u00eb Zoti \u00ebsht\u00eb b\u00ebr\u00eb njeri\u00bb.<\/em> E jo rast\u00ebsisht\nishte pik\u00ebrisht ky Shenjt q\u00eb \u201cshpiku\u201d i pari punimin e Betlehemit, q\u00eb sot\ngjendet n\u00eb \u00e7do kish\u00eb.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Mbase\nnuk \u00ebsht\u00eb nevoja t\u00eb p\u00ebrhumbemi edhe ne gjat\u00eb ngr\u00ebnies, por patjet\u00ebr mund ta\nlejojm\u00eb veten t\u00eb mb\u00ebshtillemi nga ngroht\u00ebsia e misterit t\u00eb Mish\u00ebrimit t\u00eb Birit\nt\u00eb Hyjit.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Duke\nqen\u00eb se Hyji-Trini \u00ebsht\u00eb Dashuri, at\u00ebher\u00eb kjo do t\u00eb thot\u00eb se Biri, duke u b\u00ebr\u00eb\nnjeri, ka b\u00ebr\u00eb t\u00eb mundur q\u00eb vet\u00eb Dashuria t\u00eb b\u00ebhet njeri n\u00eb personin e tij.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Fatkeq\u00ebsisht\nne njer\u00ebzit (e k\u00ebtu nuk dua ta p\u00ebrjashtoj as veten time) jemi shum\u00eb t\u00eb aft\u00eb t\u00eb\nshnd\u00ebrrohemi n\u00eb lypsar\u00eb<\/em>. Edhe at\u00ebher\u00eb\nkur nuk kemi nevoj\u00eb. Lypsar\u00ebt q\u00eb shohim rrug\u00ebve, jo t\u00eb gjith\u00eb jan\u00eb n\u00eb at\u00eb\ngjendje ngaq\u00eb v\u00ebrtet nuk e pat\u00ebn bekimin t\u00eb ken\u00eb nj\u00eb jet\u00eb ndryshe, por ngaq\u00eb\nvet\u00eb zgjodh\u00ebn<\/em> \u2013 e vazhdojn\u00eb t\u00eb zgjedhin<\/em> \u2013 ta sigurojn\u00eb buk\u00ebn e\np\u00ebrditshme n\u00eb at\u00eb m\u00ebnyr\u00eb. Por, n\u00eb nj\u00eb nivel shum\u00eb t\u00eb fsheht\u00eb shpirt\u00ebror, t\u00eb\ngjith\u00eb ne, tep\u00ebr shpesh madje, shnd\u00ebrrohemi, si pa e v\u00ebn\u00eb re, n\u00eb lypsar\u00eb: lypim\npak pushtet, lypim pak autoritet, lypim pak mir\u00ebnjohje e, m\u00eb e shpeshta, lypim\npak dashuri. Tjet\u00ebr gj\u00eb \u00ebsht\u00eb t\u00eb mir\u00ebpres\u00ebsh e ta shijosh mir\u00ebnjohjen,\np\u00ebrz\u00ebm\u00ebrsin\u00eb e dashurin\u00eb e t\u00eb tjer\u00ebve kur t\u00eb dhurohen e tjet\u00ebr gj\u00eb \u00ebsht\u00eb t\u00eb\nshnd\u00ebrrohesh n\u00eb lypsar t\u00eb tyre. T\u00eb shnd\u00ebrrohemi n\u00eb lypsar\u00eb n\u00ebnkupton t\u2019ia\nlejojm\u00eb vetes t\u00eb tjet\u00ebrsohemi, t\u00eb heqim dor\u00eb nga gj\u00ebrat q\u00eb edhe ne vet\u00eb e dim\u00eb\nmir\u00eb se jan\u00eb me vler\u00eb e me kuptim. E p\u00ebrse? Sepse egon ton\u00eb tashm\u00eb e kemi\nlejuar t\u00eb s\u00ebmuret.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

E\nprandaj shpesh ne rendim pas pak dashurie, pas pak v\u00ebmendjeje, pas pak pushteti.\nPrandaj shpesh lejojm\u00eb t\u00eb mashtrohemi, edhe at\u00ebher\u00eb kur e nuhasim se jemi duke\nu mashtruar. Shpesh ia lejojm\u00eb vetes t\u00eb jemi mashtrues, edhe at\u00ebher\u00eb kur\nvazhdon t\u00eb na vras\u00eb nd\u00ebrgjegja. Shum\u00eb shpesh ndokush vet\u00ebm p\u00ebr pak pushtet\nshitet. Shum\u00eb veta, vet\u00ebm e vet\u00ebm me q\u00ebllim q\u00eb t\u00eb d\u00ebgjojn\u00eb dy fjal\u00eb t\u00eb ngrohta\ne t\u00eb p\u00ebrzem\u00ebrta dashuri\u00e7kash, l\u00ebshohen n\u00eb aventura afektive t\u00eb rrezikshme. E\nedhe vet\u00eb e din\u00eb shum\u00eb mir\u00eb se sa t\u00eb rrezikshme dhe se sa t\u00eb pafryte jan\u00eb, por\nnuk jan\u00eb n\u00eb gjendje ta marrin n\u00eb dor\u00eb jet\u00ebn e tyre, sepse vazhdojn\u00eb t\u00eb zgjedhin\nt\u00eb mbeten lypsar\u00eb. Vazhdojn\u00eb t\u00eb enden me dor\u00ebn e shtrir\u00eb e t\u00eb thon\u00eb: \u00abM\u00eb jepni 100 lek\u00eb dashuri\u00bb<\/em>.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Ndonj\u00eb\nshembull bashk\u00ebkohor t\u00eb k\u00ebtij lloji lypsar\u00ebsh? Ata q\u00eb fiksohen pas \u201cp\u00eblqimeve\u201d\nn\u00eb facebook, instagram a ku e di un\u00eb, duke hedhur \u00e7do dit\u00eb \u2013 e shpesh edhe tri\napo kat\u00ebr her\u00eb n\u00eb dit\u00eb \u2013 statuse ose foto absolutisht t\u00eb pa kuptimta. N\u00ebn\nmask\u00ebn e nj\u00eb intelegjence apo lumturie fallso, shpesh fshehin vet\u00ebm identitetin\nprej lypsari q\u00eb kan\u00eb filluar t\u00eb zgjedhin n\u00eb jet\u00eb. Por kjo \u00ebsht\u00eb e mjerueshme.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Kemi\nd\u00ebshir\u00eb t\u00eb dukemi t\u00eb p\u00eblqyesh\u00ebm, t\u00eb men\u00e7ur, t\u00eb paz\u00ebvend\u00ebsuesh\u00ebm, jo ngaq\u00eb duam\nt\u2019i dhurojm\u00eb di\u00e7ka bot\u00ebs q\u00eb na rrethon, por ngaq\u00eb duam t\u00eb mbledhim sadopak\nmir\u00ebnjohje, duartrokitje, adhurim. Shum\u00eb sakt\u00eb e ka th\u00ebn\u00eb Blejz Paskal qysh n\u00eb\nshek. XVII: \u00abJemi kaq mendjem\u00ebdhenj, sa\ndo t\u00eb donim q\u00eb t\u00eb na njihte mbar\u00eb bota dhe jemi kaq mendjeleht\u00eb, saq\u00eb vler\u00ebsimi\ni pes\u00eb apo e gjasht\u00eb personave rreth nesh na g\u00ebzon e na k\u00ebnaq\u00bb<\/em>. Shum\u00eb pak kush e di se\nPaskali ishte nj\u00eb i krishter\u00eb i bindur. Prandaj ndoshta arrinte ta shihte m\u00eb\nmir\u00eb mendjeleht\u00ebsin\u00eb q\u00eb shpesh ne njer\u00ebzit ia lejojm\u00eb vetes.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Krishtlindja\nnuk na e lejon t\u00eb harrojm\u00eb se Dashuria, vet\u00eb\nDashuria<\/em>, \u00ebsht\u00eb b\u00ebr\u00eb Njeri dhe se e ka emrin JEZUS, se ka jetuar n\u00eb k\u00ebt\u00eb\nbot\u00eb, se ka folur me njer\u00ebzit. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

T\u00eb\nhysh n\u00eb komunikim me Jezusin n\u00eb jet\u00ebn t\u00ebnde, do t\u00eb thot\u00eb t\u00eb shkosh direkt tek\nburimi i dashuris\u00eb e jo t\u00eb shkosh ta k\u00ebrkosh ujin n\u00ebp\u00ebr kanale. Burimi garanton\npast\u00ebrtin\u00eb, kanalet shum\u00eb shpesh jo. Prandaj hape Ungjillin e do t\u00eb kuptosh\n\u00e7far\u00eb ka th\u00ebn\u00eb e \u00e7far\u00eb ka b\u00ebr\u00eb Jezusi. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u00cbsht\u00eb\ne v\u00ebrtet\u00eb se, t\u00eb k\u00ebrkosh dashuri, mir\u00ebnjohje e p\u00ebrzem\u00ebrsi, nuk ka ndonj\u00eb gj\u00eb t\u00eb\nkeqe, por kujdes sepse mund t\u00eb rendim pas dashurive q\u00eb na shnd\u00ebrrojn\u00eb n\u00eb\nskllev\u00ebr. Nd\u00ebrsa dashuria e past\u00ebr, e matur dhe e painters, t\u00eb b\u00ebn t\u00eb lir\u00eb.\nDisa thon\u00eb se dashuria e v\u00ebrtet\u00eb \u00ebsht\u00eb si e verb\u00ebr. K\u00ebto jan\u00eb p\u00ebrralla. A i\nkeni v\u00ebn\u00eb re se sa vigjilent\u00eb jan\u00eb prind\u00ebrit ndaj nesh, duke u kujdesur p\u00ebr ne\nderi n\u00eb detajet m\u00eb t\u00eb imta? Po t\u00eb ishte e verb\u00ebr ajo dashuri, nuk do t\u2019i\nv\u00ebrenin k\u00ebto detaje. Nuk ndalen tek gabimet tona jo nga marr\u00ebzia, por nga\nlargpam\u00ebsia q\u00eb kan\u00eb. Dashuria e v\u00ebrtet\u00eb t\u00eb b\u00ebn shum\u00eb vigjilent e shum\u00eb\nlargpam\u00ebs. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Hape\nUngjillin, lutu (mund\u00ebsisht t\u00eb kesh ndonj\u00eb \u00e7ast sado t\u00eb shkurt\u00ebr lutjeje \u00e7do\ndit\u00eb), mos e l\u00ebr pas dore mesh\u00ebn e s\u00eb diel\u00ebs, mos e l\u00ebr pas dore sakramentin e\nrr\u00ebfimit. Gjej koh\u00eb her\u00eb pas here edhe p\u00ebr vetmi. T\u00eb rrish vet\u00ebm me Jezusin.\nK\u00ebshtu do t\u00eb kapesh fort pas Burimit t\u00eb\nDashuris\u00eb<\/em>. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Ki\nkurajon t\u00eb m\u00ebsosh nga dashuria e Jezusit, fillo edhe ti t\u00eb duash v\u00ebrtet, pa\ninteres, si Zotin ashtu edhe njer\u00ebzit. Ki kurajon t\u00eb fal\u00ebsh ata q\u00eb t\u00eb fyejn\u00eb.\nKi kurajon t\u00eb shfaq\u00ebsh mir\u00ebsi ndaj njer\u00ebzve. Gjej m\u00ebnyr\u00ebn t\u00eb qortosh, por pa\nfyer e pa posht\u00ebruar. B\u00ebhu i fort\u00eb e filloja s\u00ebrish k\u00ebtyre gj\u00ebra kur t\u00eb lodhesh\napo kur ta kesh v\u00ebn\u00eb re se p\u00ebrs\u00ebri je shnd\u00ebrruar n\u00eb lypsar. N\u00eb lidhje me\nm\u00ebkatet e tua, beso se Jezusi t\u00eb do e t\u00eb fal po ia k\u00ebrkove k\u00ebt\u00eb sinqerisht.\nM\u00ebso t\u2019i kesh p\u00ebrzem\u00ebr veprat e mira, gj\u00ebrat me vler\u00eb. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

K\u00ebshtu\nKrishtlindja nuk do t\u00eb kaloj\u00eb pa fryte edhe p\u00ebr ty. K\u00ebshtu ti vet\u00eb do t\u00eb jesh i\nfrytsh\u00ebm. At\u00ebher\u00eb do ta v\u00ebsh re se sa keq ishte gjendja e m\u00ebparshme prej\nlypsari t\u00eb dashuris\u00eb. Ke p\u00ebr ta par\u00eb se lypsar\u00ebt e p\u00ebrjetsh\u00ebm t\u00eb dashuris\u00eb kan\u00eb\np\u00ebr ta lakmuar sh\u00ebndetin t\u00ebnd shpirt\u00ebror e, ndoshta, n\u00eb fsheht\u00ebsin\u00eb e zemr\u00ebs s\u00eb\ntyre do t\u00eb p\u00ebrpiqen edhe ata t\u00eb sh\u00ebrohen.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

A e shikon se sa shum\u00eb t\u00eb mira ka sjellur n\u00eb bot\u00eb Jezusi, Dashuria e b\u00ebr\u00eb Njeri? <\/p>\n\n\n\n

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Festa e Krishtlindjes q\u00eb po afron, na ndihmon edhe nj\u00eb her\u00eb t\u00eb hyjm\u00eb m\u00eb thell\u00eb n\u00eb misterin e pamas\u00eb t\u00eb Mish\u00ebrimit t\u00eb Zotit ton\u00eb. Thuhet n\u00eb jet\u00ebn e Sh\u00ebn Fran\u00e7eskut t\u00eb Asizit se kishte ndodhur nj\u00eb her\u00eb q\u00eb, gjat\u00eb ngr\u00ebnies, ishte p\u00ebrhumbur aq shum\u00eb saq\u00eb e kishte nd\u00ebrprer\u00eb t\u00eb ngr\u00ebn\u00ebt. Bashk\u00ebv\u00ebll\u00ebz\u00ebrit e tij, duke e … <\/p>\n

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